GENIE !!! OMG you have friends buddy :) I am always here for a cuppa & chat. I know how you feel at the moment i have moments of self doubt myself and its hard but you gotta be there for those kiddies. they love you so much and need their mumma. You have done a fab job as a mum and you have 4 beautiful kiddies that love you no matter what. take some time assess where you are and decide the direction you want to head in then go for it . you are a strong and beautiful person genie :) Luvs ya
G please seek help. Your kids need you. Abandoning them is going to solve nothing. If your feel you are unloved it is because you are not seeing straight, I know for a fact that there are many people who do love you. Get help, you are clearly depressed and you KNOW that saying you are are unworthy is a part of that and in no way a reflection of reality. Read your words as if they were written by someone else, what would you say to her??? Your children need a mother who is dedicated to getting herself healthy, not a mother who gives up. Much love to you.xo
What she said! You sound depressed... and in need of some help. There is NOTHING wrong with you. Your are NOT a dickhead, or a crappy parent. And I had no idea why you were shut out of JB... and have not seen any evidence of anyone not wanting you there. It really sounds to me as though you need to talk to someone face to face, like a counsellor. Disappearing will make everything ten times worse... And it IS possible to feel better. You are worth it.
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GENIE !!! OMG you have friends buddy :) I am always here for a cuppa & chat. I know how you feel at the moment i have moments of self doubt myself and its hard but you gotta be there for those kiddies. they love you so much and need their mumma.
You have done a fab job as a mum and you have 4 beautiful kiddies that love you no matter what.
take some time assess where you are and decide the direction you want to head in then go for it . you are a strong and beautiful person genie :) Luvs ya
Donna
G please seek help. Your kids need you. Abandoning them is going to solve nothing. If your feel you are unloved it is because you are not seeing straight, I know for a fact that there are many people who do love you. Get help, you are clearly depressed and you KNOW that saying you are are unworthy is a part of that and in no way a reflection of reality. Read your words as if they were written by someone else, what would you say to her??? Your children need a mother who is dedicated to getting herself healthy, not a mother who gives up. Much love to you.xo
What she said! You sound depressed... and in need of some help. There is NOTHING wrong with you. Your are NOT a dickhead, or a crappy parent. And I had no idea why you were shut out of JB... and have not seen any evidence of anyone not wanting you there. It really sounds to me as though you need to talk to someone face to face, like a counsellor. Disappearing will make everything ten times worse... And it IS possible to feel better. You are worth it.
Thanks for helping me through my rough patch (((HUGS)))
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